THE NATURAL TENDENCY TO SHOW INTEREST IN THE OPPOSITE SEX.

THE NATURAL TENDENCY TO SHOW INTEREST IN THE OPPOSITE SEX.

Interest in the opposite sex is, for many people, a natural biological and social tendency. 

It is part of human nature and can manifest in different ways, including simple greetings, appreciation, friendship and, in some cases, romantic or sexual attraction.

 Although this natural tendency is influenced by culture, beliefs and laws, unnecessarily restricting ordinary, respectful interactions can deprive people of the simple satisfaction that comes from positive human connections, making social relationships less natural and enjoyable. 

 Sometimes, the interest is neither sexual nor an intention to establish a friendship, let alone a long-term relationship. It may simply be the desire to say hello and enjoy the satisfaction that comes from receiving a positive response. 

Unfortunately, many people have been conditioned to interpret greetings from the opposite sex as expressions of sexual interest. 

 Christians, who should set an example of kindness, love and good conduct towards all people, should be particularly mindful of how they respond to ordinary greetings.

 Yet, some Christians treat even casual greetings from the opposite sex as potential sources of moral contamination or threats to their righteousness. 

This approach can unnecessarily complicate otherwise simple human interactions. 

 When people fail to respond positively to casual greetings, particularly in neighbourhoods, workplaces and other social settings, they can make ordinary interactions unnecessarily difficult. 

This is especially noticeable when people are unmarried or when their spouses are not present. 

However, even when both spouses are present, responding positively to ordinary greetings can contribute to a pleasant and welcoming social environment.

 There is a difference between maintaining appropriate boundaries in relationships and treating every interaction with the opposite sex as a potential moral threat. 

We can uphold our personal values, remain faithful in marriage and maintain appropriate boundaries without making ordinary greetings uncomfortable. 

 Human relationships do not always have to lead to friendship, romance or sexual attraction to be meaningful.

 Sometimes, a simple greeting, a warm response and mutual respect are sufficient to make someone's day better.

 Elijah Mutua Kirima

 Pastor and Social Worker.

 THE WORD OF GOD IS THE WILL OF GOD