Words can give people hope, but hope alone does not put food on the table, provide shelter, create employment, pay school fees, restore a broken family, or rebuild a struggling community. When encouragement is repeatedly offered without a practical pathway toward improvement, people eventually get tired of hearing comforting words while their circumstances remain unchanged.
This is the mistake many religious leaders, preachers and pastors are making, especially in Africa.
It is the mistake many politicians are making, mostly in Africa and especially every elections time.
In some situations, this can even create a false sense that something is being done when, in reality, very little is changing. The person offering encouragement may feel helpful, but the life conditions of the person receiving it continues to face the same problems.
This does not mean that comfort, motivation, prayer, or encouragement are unnecessary. They are important, particularly when people are discouraged or overwhelmed. However, encouragement should ideally become a bridge to action rather than a substitute for action.
The Bible captures this principle clearly: “If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food... and one of you say unto them, Depart in peace... notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit?” — James 2:15–16.
Psychologically, encouragement can strengthen hope, resilience, and motivation, but lasting improvement is possible when encouragement is connected to practical goals, achievable steps, and real support.
From a human-rights perspective, people in need should not be viewed merely as recipients of sympathy and words of comfort. They are persons with dignity, rights, abilities, and a legitimate claim to opportunities and conditions that enable them to live and develop with dignity.
When someone is genuinely in need, we should ask practical questions: What exactly is the problem? What can be done immediately? What resources are available? Who can help? What skills can be developed? What opportunities can be created? What can the person do for themselves, and what support is genuinely necessary from others? How is the government and other society institutions contributing to this and what can be done?
Real compassion therefore goes beyond saying, “Be strong,” “Things will get better,” or “Keep believing.” It also asks, “What can we do together to make things better?”
The goal should not be to make people feel better about their circumstances, but to help them move toward circumstances that are actually better.
Comfort the discouraged, encourage the hopeful, but also help the needy find a practical way forward. Words should inspire action, and compassion should ultimately seek results.
While after prayer and doing all that is humanly possible, the needy person or community must leave it to God, the believers and indeed the whole society, including governments, must know that God wants them to get ready to respond to the needs of other people, whose needs if met will give glory to God.
Elijah Mutua Kirima.
Pastor and Social Worker.
THE WORD OF GOD IS THE WILL OF GOD.